but let’s be real here for a second: if someone has done nothing wrong to you (note: “existing in the same world as you” or “being unattractive” doesn’t really qualify, sorry) then don’t go around being a huge dick to them.
like dang ok i am actually secretly a REALLY JUDGMENTAL PERSON, i’m gonna be honest, silently judgin’ people all up in here all the time because hey, there is an extent to which everyone does that. (usually for me it’s more about personality but it’s still fuckin’ rude because hey, i barely know you, why do i judge your personality?????? gosh liz, don’t be a dick.)
but if you have nasty/unkind thoughts about someone, let me just lay it out for you here, i have the number one way to not be rude to them and to make your life easier and everyone else’s by proxy: